I often question how social media has changed our interactions with one another. Are we less guarded due to our anonymity that we forget social norms?
As an example, I received two private messages recently. One that simply stated “large cock that will rip your little slutty school girl apart” and another that complimented me on my blog, profile and photos and asked if there was any interest in continuing the conversation?
Now some may be thinking I would select Door #1 as my further chatting companion.
But as much as I enjoy the whole dressing in a Catholic school girl short pleated skirt uniform and bending over the teacher’s desk with no panties to get my punishment with a ruler for my mild and repeated transgressions fantasy (that was an understatement as I have it so often at work).
I feel most valued when men or women see that I am more than just big tits and an open ass. That I have a brain and that they read this blog or see something on fet that makes them say “she’s different and goodness me she even has amazing tits and loves anal too.”
I think the beauty of the anonymity for me is I can be so transparent and free with my kinks and desires as I am not feeling judged like I do in the real world. So I choose to use these platforms for that and honing my kinks and fetishes. It’s also a way to meet others who are in similar places as you that you’d never come across so that can learn and grow together.
I admit that I trip up in polite society and say something that people wouldn’t expect of someone who looks like me. I am very plain, I don’t say that disparaging but I have one visible tattoo most days, I have a stylish mom bob (out of necessity), I don’t wear a ton of makeup, and I dress nicely but am in ballet flats not heels.
You wouldn’t give me a passing look if you saw me on the streets. But then I laugh at a joke I shouldn’t or say something that I shouldn’t and my cover is blown. And then you might give me another glance.
But it’s nice to have the outside world where I have this mask so I don’t get into too much trouble most days…
– The Girl