The dingo got my baby…. – Lindy Chamberlain I have become quite the podcast junkie on my long commute to and from work. I will listen to almost anything from sex to business to true crime related podcasts. This past week I listened to one about a murder in Salem, Mass and another on the […]
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Boundaries…
I am just going to go on record that open marriages can be hard to navigate. My husband is going on a date this week and I am actually happy for him. When I say date, he’s really going to fuck another woman. Tonight he was trying to come up with his cover story for […]
The Dance Off…
Do you wanna dance? Or do you wanna dance? – Thomas Crown First off I want to say how much I have always loved and appreciated The Thomas Crown Affair remake as it celebrated age appropriate people who clearly liked to fuck each other. I mentioned a few posts back that I have started taking […]
Knowing Your Why…
I often listen to podcasts to break up my commute to and from work. Recently I have been listening to Sex With Strangers as I enjoy learning about other journeys to sexual satisfaction. Today was an episode on sugar dating and although not something I have ever spent much time thinking about, I can see […]
Get Funky With Me…
Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower. We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind. – William Wordsworth I have been in a funk, there’s no other way to describe it. Maybe there should be another word for it when it’s lasted for […]
And There’s a Time to Cuddle…
If I lay here If I just lay here Would you lie with me and just forget the world? – Snow Patrol The best part about the lifestyle is meeting people you click with. Not just sexually, but whom you enjoy the time away from the bedroom as well. I am lucky as I can […]
The Rough Patch…
Today while scrolling through my slightly less inhabited corner of naughty, I came across a post from a dear friend on Tumblr that may finally give me the kick in the ass I really need. It was 8 simple rules that should be avoided: I am so guilty of most of them that it actually […]
Knowing Your Value…
I think there’s a common misperception about people in the lifestyle that we will fuck anything that moves. But alas to quote Bart Simpson, “Au contraire, mon Frère.” Last night, we went to a house party hosted by a couple we did not know. We read their rules and respected that they put so much […]
In With the New…
Here we are now going to the east side I pick up my friends and we start to ride Ride all night we ride all day Some may come and some may stay – Moby I have been told on more than one occasion by couples in the lifestyle that the longer they are in […]
I’ll Have Another…
I’ll have another is a phrase I am trying to ease out of my vocabulary. It’s not just limited to my consumption of alcohol but to things as well. Sometimes I need a reminder that things, food and booze do not fulfill or define me. For instance the other night, my husband and I went […]
The Girl You'd Never Guess 