I often listen to podcasts to break up my commute to and from work. Recently I have been listening to Sex With Strangers as I enjoy learning about other journeys to sexual satisfaction. Today was an episode on sugar dating and although not something I have ever spent much time thinking about, I can see […]
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Get Funky With Me…
Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower. We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind. – William Wordsworth I have been in a funk, there’s no other way to describe it. Maybe there should be another word for it when it’s lasted for […]
And There’s a Time to Cuddle…
If I lay here If I just lay here Would you lie with me and just forget the world? – Snow Patrol The best part about the lifestyle is meeting people you click with. Not just sexually, but whom you enjoy the time away from the bedroom as well. I am lucky as I can […]
The Rough Patch…
Today while scrolling through my slightly less inhabited corner of naughty, I came across a post from a dear friend on Tumblr that may finally give me the kick in the ass I really need. It was 8 simple rules that should be avoided: I am so guilty of most of them that it actually […]
Knowing Your Value…
I think there’s a common misperception about people in the lifestyle that we will fuck anything that moves. But alas to quote Bart Simpson, “Au contraire, mon Frère.” Last night, we went to a house party hosted by a couple we did not know. We read their rules and respected that they put so much […]
In With the New…
Here we are now going to the east side I pick up my friends and we start to ride Ride all night we ride all day Some may come and some may stay – Moby I have been told on more than one occasion by couples in the lifestyle that the longer they are in […]
I’ll Have Another…
I’ll have another is a phrase I am trying to ease out of my vocabulary. It’s not just limited to my consumption of alcohol but to things as well. Sometimes I need a reminder that things, food and booze do not fulfill or define me. For instance the other night, my husband and I went […]
Married Sex…
So I hate to disappoint people but I do have vanilla sex and on a frequent basis. Not every night can be a hog tied, threesome in public. This has been a week that has seen the Girl cook many a fancy meal, drink way too much and crave cock to rock her to sleep. […]
May I Be Your Unicorn???
It’s been an odd week at The Girl’s residence. It started last Friday when I had a few too many drinks, came home, changed into a lacy tank and matching thong and proceeded to ride my husband on our couch until he came. Did I care that our son could peer over the balcony? Nope […]
Rise and Shine…
My husband and I had a fun time with another likeminded couple a few nights back and then it was a few days of holiday activities with our teenage children. We needed to fuck or shall I just speak for me, I needed to fuck. Last night, we had drinks at a local bar. We […]
The Girl You'd Never Guess 