I promised to my wife and childrenI’d never touch another drinkAs long as I live but even thenIt sounds so soothing to mix a ginAnd sink into oblivion – Cold War Kids I never had a drinking problem, unless you count that one year in college. But I can understand those that have some kind […]
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Freedom…
The dingo got my baby…. – Lindy Chamberlain I have become quite the podcast junkie on my long commute to and from work. I will listen to almost anything from sex to business to true crime related podcasts. This past week I listened to one about a murder in Salem, Mass and another on the […]
Boundaries…
I am just going to go on record that open marriages can be hard to navigate. My husband is going on a date this week and I am actually happy for him. When I say date, he’s really going to fuck another woman. Tonight he was trying to come up with his cover story for […]
The Dance Off…
Do you wanna dance? Or do you wanna dance? – Thomas Crown First off I want to say how much I have always loved and appreciated The Thomas Crown Affair remake as it celebrated age appropriate people who clearly liked to fuck each other. I mentioned a few posts back that I have started taking […]
Knowing Your Why…
I often listen to podcasts to break up my commute to and from work. Recently I have been listening to Sex With Strangers as I enjoy learning about other journeys to sexual satisfaction. Today was an episode on sugar dating and although not something I have ever spent much time thinking about, I can see […]
And There’s a Time to Cuddle…
If I lay here If I just lay here Would you lie with me and just forget the world? – Snow Patrol The best part about the lifestyle is meeting people you click with. Not just sexually, but whom you enjoy the time away from the bedroom as well. I am lucky as I can […]
Knowing Your Value…
I think there’s a common misperception about people in the lifestyle that we will fuck anything that moves. But alas to quote Bart Simpson, “Au contraire, mon Frère.” Last night, we went to a house party hosted by a couple we did not know. We read their rules and respected that they put so much […]
In With the New…
Here we are now going to the east side I pick up my friends and we start to ride Ride all night we ride all day Some may come and some may stay – Moby I have been told on more than one occasion by couples in the lifestyle that the longer they are in […]
I’ll Have Another…
I’ll have another is a phrase I am trying to ease out of my vocabulary. It’s not just limited to my consumption of alcohol but to things as well. Sometimes I need a reminder that things, food and booze do not fulfill or define me. For instance the other night, my husband and I went […]
May I Be Your Unicorn???
It’s been an odd week at The Girl’s residence. It started last Friday when I had a few too many drinks, came home, changed into a lacy tank and matching thong and proceeded to ride my husband on our couch until he came. Did I care that our son could peer over the balcony? Nope […]
The Girl You'd Never Guess 