I am just a 40+ something year old woman who enjoys really sex. If you’d walk by me, you’d never know what dirty thoughts lie underneath a demure package.
Mama always told me not to look into the eyes of the sun, But mama, that’s where the fun is – Manfred Mann’s Earth Band It all started with an online flirt at the beginning of the week. Then we moved to kik and got to know each other. By Wednesday, we were at the […]
Every time she moves on she says (Don’t take it personal) – hrvy People are afraid to merge on freeways in Los Angeles. – Bret Easton Ellis I remember reading Bret Easton Ellis’ Less Than Zero when I was 14 and that opening line has always resonated with me. I am one of those people […]
All week I was looking forward to my weekend of debauchery with the husband. Not all went as planned… On Friday, we were going to a house party hosted by this amazingly hot couple. Both turned out to be as sexy and fun in real life as their profile alluded. They gathered an amazing group […]
My first kiss went a little like this Mwah mwah and twist Mwah mwah and twist – 3OH!3 I have a really good and caring husband. He allows me freedom within our agreed parameters to embrace certain aspects of my sexuality that aren’t necessarily his kinks. He realizes that I am coming home to the […]
Sen·su·al·ist /ˈsen(t)SH(o͞o)ələst/ noun a person devoted to physical, especially sexual, pleasure. “a dedicated sensualist” – Oxford Dictionary Today as I drove the 75 mph highway from the southern tip of Texas to my suburban abode, I thought back to what a beautiful day it turned out to be. My daughter and I took a slight […]
Dearly beloved, we have gathered here today To get through this thing called life. – Prince Today as I sat and had coffee with a seriously beautiful woman and she told me about the status of her divorce and dating life, I realize how most women at a certain stage in life are more similar […]
Everyone has three lives: a public life, a private life and a secret life. – Gabriel Garcia Marquez So I have enjoyed going back to work with it’s routine and daily drive by my beloved lake. I work with professional people who are nice. I work in a picturesque part of town where there’s places […]
The other day I was grateful and disheartened to read a post by one of the owners of our local Swingers club explaining why single men are not allowed in the club. I was grateful as it was a beautiful explanation of what couples prepare for when entering the lifestyle and disheartened because so many […]
So one thing I have learned after being with the same person for 20 years and then opening up is there isn’t a guide on how to do it. There is “Excel for Dummies” but where’s the equivalent for open marriage? Without that, I went to the two places I trust most, fetlife forums and […]
Yesterday was not a great day at the Girl’s house as I really should have taken a different approach with a very sensitive but sincere request that would be game changing to my marriage. But instead, to quote Miley Cyrus, “I went in like a wrecking ball.” Through reassurance and calm discussion to tears and […]
The Girl You'd Never Guess 