I promised to my wife and childrenI’d never touch another drinkAs long as I live but even thenIt sounds so soothing to mix a ginAnd sink into oblivion – Cold War Kids I never had a drinking problem, unless you count that one year in college. But I can understand those that have some kind […]
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Freedom…
The dingo got my baby…. – Lindy Chamberlain I have become quite the podcast junkie on my long commute to and from work. I will listen to almost anything from sex to business to true crime related podcasts. This past week I listened to one about a murder in Salem, Mass and another on the […]
Boundaries…
I am just going to go on record that open marriages can be hard to navigate. My husband is going on a date this week and I am actually happy for him. When I say date, he’s really going to fuck another woman. Tonight he was trying to come up with his cover story for […]
The Dance Off…
Do you wanna dance? Or do you wanna dance? – Thomas Crown First off I want to say how much I have always loved and appreciated The Thomas Crown Affair remake as it celebrated age appropriate people who clearly liked to fuck each other. I mentioned a few posts back that I have started taking […]
And There’s a Time to Cuddle…
If I lay here If I just lay here Would you lie with me and just forget the world? – Snow Patrol The best part about the lifestyle is meeting people you click with. Not just sexually, but whom you enjoy the time away from the bedroom as well. I am lucky as I can […]
Knowing Your Value…
I think there’s a common misperception about people in the lifestyle that we will fuck anything that moves. But alas to quote Bart Simpson, “Au contraire, mon Frère.” Last night, we went to a house party hosted by a couple we did not know. We read their rules and respected that they put so much […]
In With the New…
Here we are now going to the east side I pick up my friends and we start to ride Ride all night we ride all day Some may come and some may stay – Moby I have been told on more than one occasion by couples in the lifestyle that the longer they are in […]
I’ll Have Another…
I’ll have another is a phrase I am trying to ease out of my vocabulary. It’s not just limited to my consumption of alcohol but to things as well. Sometimes I need a reminder that things, food and booze do not fulfill or define me. For instance the other night, my husband and I went […]
May I Be Your Unicorn???
It’s been an odd week at The Girl’s residence. It started last Friday when I had a few too many drinks, came home, changed into a lacy tank and matching thong and proceeded to ride my husband on our couch until he came. Did I care that our son could peer over the balcony? Nope […]
Go With The Flow…
Mama always told me not to look into the eyes of the sun, But mama, that’s where the fun is – Manfred Mann’s Earth Band It all started with an online flirt at the beginning of the week. Then we moved to kik and got to know each other. By Wednesday, we were at the […]
The Girl You'd Never Guess 