I am just a 40+ something year old woman who enjoys really sex. If you’d walk by me, you’d never know what dirty thoughts lie underneath a demure package.
Today, I have no quote or opener, I don’t even have a witty title. I am just tired of being away from the place where I can just be me. As some may know, I started this blog to find my voice again after Tumblr changed its policy and started enforcing a ban on self-created […]
I often listen to podcasts to break up my commute to and from work. Recently I have been listening to Sex With Strangers as I enjoy learning about other journeys to sexual satisfaction. Today was an episode on sugar dating and although not something I have ever spent much time thinking about, I can see […]
If I lay here If I just lay here Would you lie with me and just forget the world? – Snow Patrol The best part about the lifestyle is meeting people you click with. Not just sexually, but whom you enjoy the time away from the bedroom as well. I am lucky as I can […]
Here we are now going to the east side I pick up my friends and we start to ride Ride all night we ride all day Some may come and some may stay – Moby I have been told on more than one occasion by couples in the lifestyle that the longer they are in […]
I’ll have another is a phrase I am trying to ease out of my vocabulary. It’s not just limited to my consumption of alcohol but to things as well. Sometimes I need a reminder that things, food and booze do not fulfill or define me. For instance the other night, my husband and I went […]
It’s been an odd week at The Girl’s residence. It started last Friday when I had a few too many drinks, came home, changed into a lacy tank and matching thong and proceeded to ride my husband on our couch until he came. Did I care that our son could peer over the balcony? Nope […]
My husband and I had a fun time with another likeminded couple a few nights back and then it was a few days of holiday activities with our teenage children. We needed to fuck or shall I just speak for me, I needed to fuck. Last night, we had drinks at a local bar. We […]
Mama always told me not to look into the eyes of the sun, But mama, that’s where the fun is – Manfred Mann’s Earth Band It all started with an online flirt at the beginning of the week. Then we moved to kik and got to know each other. By Wednesday, we were at the […]
All week I was looking forward to my weekend of debauchery with the husband. Not all went as planned… On Friday, we were going to a house party hosted by this amazingly hot couple. Both turned out to be as sexy and fun in real life as their profile alluded. They gathered an amazing group […]
Sen·su·al·ist /ˈsen(t)SH(o͞o)ələst/ noun a person devoted to physical, especially sexual, pleasure. “a dedicated sensualist” – Oxford Dictionary Today as I drove the 75 mph highway from the southern tip of Texas to my suburban abode, I thought back to what a beautiful day it turned out to be. My daughter and I took a slight […]
The Girl You'd Never Guess 