I often listen to podcasts to break up my commute to and from work. Recently I have been listening to Sex With Strangers as I enjoy learning about other journeys to sexual satisfaction. Today was an episode on sugar dating and although not something I have ever spent much time thinking about, I can see […]
Tag: Swinging
And There’s a Time to Cuddle…
If I lay here If I just lay here Would you lie with me and just forget the world? – Snow Patrol The best part about the lifestyle is meeting people you click with. Not just sexually, but whom you enjoy the time away from the bedroom as well. I am lucky as I can […]
Knowing Your Value…
I think there’s a common misperception about people in the lifestyle that we will fuck anything that moves. But alas to quote Bart Simpson, “Au contraire, mon Frère.” Last night, we went to a house party hosted by a couple we did not know. We read their rules and respected that they put so much […]
In With the New…
Here we are now going to the east side I pick up my friends and we start to ride Ride all night we ride all day Some may come and some may stay – Moby I have been told on more than one occasion by couples in the lifestyle that the longer they are in […]
I’ll Have Another…
I’ll have another is a phrase I am trying to ease out of my vocabulary. It’s not just limited to my consumption of alcohol but to things as well. Sometimes I need a reminder that things, food and booze do not fulfill or define me. For instance the other night, my husband and I went […]
May I Be Your Unicorn???
It’s been an odd week at The Girl’s residence. It started last Friday when I had a few too many drinks, came home, changed into a lacy tank and matching thong and proceeded to ride my husband on our couch until he came. Did I care that our son could peer over the balcony? Nope […]
Go With The Flow…
Mama always told me not to look into the eyes of the sun, But mama, that’s where the fun is – Manfred Mann’s Earth Band It all started with an online flirt at the beginning of the week. Then we moved to kik and got to know each other. By Wednesday, we were at the […]
Walk On By….
Every time she moves on she says (Don’t take it personal) – hrvy People are afraid to merge on freeways in Los Angeles. – Bret Easton Ellis I remember reading Bret Easton Ellis’ Less Than Zero when I was 14 and that opening line has always resonated with me. I am one of those people […]
The Pathway to Hell…
All week I was looking forward to my weekend of debauchery with the husband. Not all went as planned… On Friday, we were going to a house party hosted by this amazingly hot couple. Both turned out to be as sexy and fun in real life as their profile alluded. They gathered an amazing group […]
Anticipation…
Make me walk, make me talk, do whatever you please I can act like a star, I can beg on my knees Come jump in, bimbo friend, let us do it again, Hit the town, fool around, let’s go party You can touch, you can play, if you say, “I’m always yours.” – Aqua It’s […]
The Girl You'd Never Guess 